Heuristic #2
This one I gots from Dr. Gordon Livingston:
"How do they make you feel?"
It's a decision rule for whom you allocate time to. It's how you assess the quality of your relationships. Keep it simple - better/worse.
It's a valuable rule of thumb for me, because my mind makes so much noise to confuse the signal. Don't worry about who someone is, or why they do what they do, keep focused on how they make you feel.
"How do they make you feel?"
It's a decision rule for whom you allocate time to. It's how you assess the quality of your relationships. Keep it simple - better/worse.
It's a valuable rule of thumb for me, because my mind makes so much noise to confuse the signal. Don't worry about who someone is, or why they do what they do, keep focused on how they make you feel.
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